The civilian casualty of Gettysburg

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Almost 8,000 men died at the battle of Gettysburg, these 150 years ago.  Joining them in the Hereafter was a single civilian resident of Gettysburg, Ginnie Wade.

Miss Wade was a young woman who by chance seems to have been engaged to a Union soldier, Cpl. Jack Skelly.  Wade was kneading bread dough when fighting swept through the town.  The house she was in was riddled with 150 bullets.

One of those shot her through the heart.  Cpl Skelly had been wounded in a battle two weeks previously, and died a week and a half after Miss Wade.  Nobody had the heart to tell him that she had died before him.

If you visit Gettysburg and go to the Evergreen Cemetery you can see her monument, near Cpl. Skelly's grave.  Miss Wade is one of only two women to have a monument with a flag that is displayed 24x7 (the other is Betsy Ross in Philadelphia).

It's easy to look at history as nothing but a list of Kings and Battles.  History is made op of billions of stories of people who had their own hopes and dreams.  Some happily played out leaving little record.  Others, like Ginnie Wade, traded that lifetime of hopes and dreams for a spot in the history books.  I can't know, but imagine that Miss Wade would have chosen a different outcome, had she been offered a choice.