And this sounds like something that the lovely and well-married Mrs. Borepatch might write:
I've had people ask me if there's a secret to a long happy marriage. I don't know. I do know we appreciate each other. We actually like each other, in addition to the love. We'd rather spend time together than with anyone else - but we don't smother each other. We share many of the same interests, but we both have things that interest us that the other couldn't care less about.Maybe if we ask nicely he'll post about getting Mrs. Paladin out to the range.
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